How Do Yall Outsmart ?

https://photos.app.goo.gl/qo3G6duxzHEqi1LU7 In this video draya invited the wives to her big nice party but one wife had on the wrong color and she was sad about it and the other wives was acting like a goth mom at the one wife for the whole night infront of the camera the one wife did say negatives about them I think people was trying to play me but they didnt know me like that People always controlled me personally What outsmart stuff can i do? Please explain