Feedback wanted from WOMEN

I am looking for some honest feedback. I have had difficulty finding like-minded women who are open to exploring sexuality. I find the bar-scene boring & monotonous particularly being an Entertainer and found dating/chat sites to be full of cat fishing and fake ads. While I am not opposed to "Professionals", my experience has found them to be quite lacking in the desires of their clients needless the education. I'm a rather unique individual having difficulty finding female "play friends", even if only for discussion. I am slightly chronologically older, cauc, single, well-educated, Professional Entertainer, WAY FUN, open minded Renaissance-Type searching for women to have "stimulating" conversations, even if only platonic, IN-PERSON. Personally highly sexual, very into the "Glamour-Look"; make-up, Lipstick, and have a fetish for SHEER NYLON STOCKINGS/PANTYHOSE that I would love to find someone willing to explore with me. Are sites such as this just a waste of time? I have received only 1 related emails and a few messages from soliciting providers that I question their validity. I am open to any and all advice, opinions, and suggestions that may be helpful in my quest.Thank you for your time. Cum4stockings