Curious

Idk if this would fall under general lol and may sound dumb….has anyone “surprised” their partner/spouse with a threesome? My husband has asked before and I’m all in BUT I have questions thoughts and concerns and I also think I would have some boundaries like some things ARE OFF LIMITS. (Is that wrong) Is there anyone out there to help me?

Well from past experiences I would say if it doesn't happen at home, it will not happen in a 3some. Hubby asks for 3some and your all in no problem, but is this a fantasy just to be with 2 women? Or does hubby want to do anal with 3rd person because it does not happen in current sexual activity? Having boundaries is a need at times because if he has his way with visitor and enjoys it, what situation does that leave you in? I know wondering whether or not he is seeing her regularly to indulge in his fetishist and this could in turn have unwelcome endings. So in a nut shell you need to both talk through how it will play out and have a code word you say if one is not happy with what's going on.

Thank you!!!! And he does get anal and pretty much anything he asks for and I DONT MIND I like to please him it’s the fantasy of two women and he has really only asked or brought it up twice maybe and it’s something else I would like to do is please him BUT (that word but is always there) and that falls on me I know. When I mention boundaries it’s like he doesn’t understand it I WOULD NOT GO FOR him doing something with or to her that he doesn’t or won’t do with or for me and it’s like I have three heads… what’s really going on?!? Is it me???