Is it gay??

Is it gay when a dude says “you got a good looking dick”?? Ever since I first heard that said to me, I find myself comparing mine to others and think “damn, bro got a hammer” or “why tf is she fuckin him? Mine is way bigger/better looking” lol definitely need opinions on this. Better yet, does getting a double barrel BJ with the homie make y’all bi?? Definitely gotta know about that one bc I feel if we’re both in a chicks mouth, it doesn’t seem gay considering we’re penetrating the chick

None of that is gay. Finding yourself in some ambiguous situation because of someone else, or comparing/complimenting another bloke on his wedding tackle are not gay. Having the desire to want to explore another guys body, touch their's of get them to touch yours, penetrating or being penetrated by another guy- (that's likely to be bi-sexual. Being gay it's not a disease you can contract, or accidentally become. You'd know if you were.